Taken for Granted

People will take you for granted when you are being too nice.
Sometimes being a bitch is better than being nice.
This is a form of protection from being taken for granted from people who doesn't appreciate you.

It happened to me so many times.
People stepped on my head cuz I am always soft hearted.
I am not saying that I am as nice as an angel.
I guessed I always say Yes to please others while in my heart I wanna say No.

But you know what?
Enough is enough..
It's time for me to be cruel.
I will say no when I meant no and yes when I meant yes.
If I keep being like how am I now, I will ended up getting fooled.
And people will think that I am an easy target.

I won't let people used me anymore.
It's time for me stick up for myself..

I take friendship very seriously.
Friends meant the whole world to me.
That's why I will try to do anything I could for friends.
I will stick up to my friends who got my back.

Those of you fakers who only take advantage of me, please stop what you are doing.
I am very fragile.
I got hurt easily and things like this will disappoint me, make me sad and upset.
I suggest you to leave me alone if you have in mind to take advantage of me.

Driving Lesson Part II

Learning to drive is horrifying.
Especially when you get an impatient instructor.
Yesterday's lesson sucked as I can't communicate with my instructor well.
Thinking that it was my first time driving and had no idea how to drive at all, I gave my instructor another chance.

But it turned out that today's lesson is even worse than yesterday's!!
I tried to do the best I could but the problem is, I can't even control my steering well.
And my instructor was expecting me to know how to control the steering??

Can you imagine?
While I was driving, he can even shut his eyes??
It's as if, he was so tired or he thinks that I am too dumb to drive to the extent that he no-eye-see me drive.

When I almost hit a tree, he asked me where was I looking when I drive.
Then I told him that I was looking at the front.
His replied? "If you are looking at the front, you won't almost hit the tree."
Like hello?? I am still learning and I can't control my steering well???

I got furious and fought him back.
I told him directly that it's like my second time driving and I don't know how to control the steering!

I guess he got threaten when I said that.
So, he asked me to stop the car and relax for a while.
Later he asked me to drive forward then reverse and remain his silence.
I did that repeatedly without knowing what's the purpose of doing that.

So, the lesson ended.
I have asked advise my mum and friends if I should change this problematic instructor and they asked me to do so.
Hence, I called up the driving school to ask them to get me another instructor.

Guess what? Before I could complain about him, he actually asked the driving school to get me another instructor instead!
Well, I just hope my future instructor will teach me well.
If the same thing happens again, I guess I AM the one who is causing all the difficulties in the lesson!

P/S: Wish me luck.. I need them.. Cuz I think I am going to fail my driving test!! T__T

My First Driving Lesson

OMG!
It's more difficult than I thought!
And my instructor is such an impatient person!!

I felt so stupid throughout the whole lesson!!
I was blur, I panicked and I can't coordinate myself!!

Not only that, now I realized that my Cantonese actually SUCKS!
I can't really get what my instructor was teaching as I can't fully understand what he said..

When the lesson ended, he asked where was my mind when I was learning.
I truly gave my 100% of concentration.
But yet he thinks that I am fooling around..
Like HELLO? This is like my first time driving a car?
Isn't it normal to panicked and forgot one or two steps taught?

Gosh.. I will be having another lesson tomorrow..
I hope I won't forget what I learned today..

Wish me luck... T_________T

Not only haters on Facebook but Twitter as well..

All I can say is WOW!
Their unity to defend their favorite band is beyond the world..
I was really impressed!!

First off, I didn't even dissed their favorite band.. All I did was just post this on Universal Music Malaysia.

Okay la.. It was my mistake to link The Wanted like this, and lead to offending the fans..
But seriously, it was never my intention to dissed the band..
I was just frustrated that McFly haven't step a foot in Malaysia but The Wanted did..
The Wanted is from UK, so do McFly..
So what I truly meant from the above comment was how I felt..
I am not comparing them..
I did not said that they do not deserve to come here..
All of these are just your ACCUSATION!!
Your assumption..
It's just a small matter, why made it big??

And I replied what you guys commented is because I wanna stand to my point..
That I DON'T hate The Wanted and I have nothing against them..
And still they thought I hate The Wanted and made a big deal out of it..

Things won't turned as sour as this if she don't add me on Facebook..


I even inboxed her stating that I was surprised to see her friend request and said nice meeting her.
And she even replied.


I thought things will end up pretty like that.
But I was still a little doubtful when she added me, so I checked out her Facebook info.
There was a link to her Twitter account.
So I checked out her Twitter.
And saw what she wrote.

Okay la.. That post sound like I am criticizing The Wanted, but it was never my intention. AT ALL.
And this post consider to be rude?? I don't even swear in it.. =.=

I am not even mad that she called me Dora The Explorer.. I even call myself that sometimes.. It's not something that matters.
What matter is, if you are not sincere to get to know this person, why add them on Facebook??
Why pretend to be nice??


After all that, I removed her as my friend on Facebook.
And blogged about what had happened.
Somehow, she saw my blog link on my Twitter and saw what I blogged.

Yes.. I did.. This is my personal blog for rants.. Even though I was blogging about you guys, I made it very anonymous..
I didn't even displayed the names..

Let me enlighten you.






You just added a stranger you hate on Facebook?? What for??? Playing nice??
So their tweets just goes on. And I was reading them, but I just LOL on what they said..


What I tweet about you guys??
I just said things like:-

Did I mentioned any names??
Why you all feel threaten by all these??
It's my twitter..
I say what I want..
Who asked you to read my twitter?
And what I tweet doesn't mean I am tweeting about you guys..


Haha.. I didn't even wanna do that??
What for??
I don't get pay for all this crap..
Or is it you guys are guilty for doing what you did??



Okay.. For B, I am sorry that I called you a hater.. I don't wanna go into details at my previous blog as I was just ranting..
Sorry to make you feel bad for what I said..
Here I take it all back..


Seriously, I did learned from what you said..
And I admit that the comment on UMM was a mistake..
But what the rest did was not right either..
They made a huge deal out of it..


As I said, this is my personal blog for ranting.
I just rant about people hating me for what I said on Facebook.
I got over it after it happened too..

Another hypocrite, out of nowhere @ replied me on Twitter.
Why I called her a hypocrite too??
You judge for yourself..


Live in peace?
Like seriously?
She is the nastiest among all of them.
She just suddenly get involved in the whole situation and made things worst?









I got a lot to say, BUT, I felt it's useless to talk to people like you..
Jane couldn't stand seeing her said that I am ugly and tweeted them..




I am saying nothing but the truth on my twitter and blog too..
Why you guys felt so threaten? I don't even mention names and links to your facebook and twitter account... Why fret??

When you are out of words, you said things like that to hurt people.
Bad news is, I am not hurt by what you said.
Cuz this truly show how "ethical" you are when you lose an argument..

So this is what school teach the kids nowadays??

See what I mean??

Again this DV tweeted something that contradict what she did..
If you live in peace, you don't just get involved in all this and called people names..

And once again, it was NEVER my intention to dissed them..
The comment I posted, probably I should rephrase the sentence.
It made you guys misunderstood, I am sorry.
But hey, WHY MADE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT?
So funny that you even tweeted one of the member about me..

Okay.. End of story..
This will be the last post I mentioned about them.
Thanks for showing the world how "ethical" you guys are..

If you guys are reading this, you might think, wtf?
Why blog about all this?
Get a life??
Yada yada..

Why I blogged about this??
Simple..
Freedom of speech!
And for the third time, this is my personal blog for ranting..
Don't read it if you don't like..

And oh ya..
If you wanna promote my blog, go ahead..
Good for my blog statistic..

Okay..
You guys have a good life ahead..
Do more important stuff than giving a damn on what people wrote on Facebook/Twitter/Blog..

P/S: B, all the above is not about you alright.. I know you are the most sensible out of this bunch.
And I respect you for that. And I am sorry for branding you as a hater, which you are not..

P/P/S: Feel so much better after letting all this out.. Phew~~ Sorry cuz it was such a LOOOONG post.. After this thing, I am gonna let this matter to rest..

I have created haters on Facebook!! XD

Like seriously.. I really created a bunch of haters... About five of them I think.. XD







What is thought a small gesture to demand for McFly to Malaysia, ends up like this..
Okay, maybe I was not entirely right after all..
But the truth is, my comment was purely innocent at the first place..

After all this commotion, the first commenter even added me as friend on Facebook??
Surprised, I accepted her request.
When I saw that she has a Twitter account, I checked it out.

Well, she actually made fun of me on her Twitter..
Seeing that, I removed her as my friend and tweeted her.
I also found out that all the people who commented on this post are actually friends..
They were seriously bashing me on Twitter..
Would wanna print screen and post it here, but they were too many and I am too lazy!! :P

Sigh.. Why so much hate on what others said?
Okay, you might not like it, but just ignore it la..
Me myself is a very fanatic person.
But whenever I saw people commented negative things on the person I like, I will be angry too, but I will just ignore..

I am not like the racist white girl from UCLA..
I didn't trash The Wanted..
Why jumped into the conclusion??
Get a life people..

Out of Words!!

I seriously don't know what's up with me..
There's so much in my thoughts to write it out, but somehow, when I started to type a post, I will somehow delete the whole thing I wrote..
Funny huh??
It's like out of a sudden, I do not know how to carry on to write..

I went to the K-Pop Concert.
I went to Singapore to celebrate Chinese New Year.
Yet, I didn't really update anything here!!

But all I can say is, I am going through 'that phase' again..
You know, the phase where I think too much..
My mind is clustered and that's probably why I can't write out what I really wanna expressed.

There are so many questions I am trying to figure out myself..
What is life about?
What I really wanna be in the future? What am I supposed to do?
Should I change my job? How to save money? How to EARN more?

Urgh.. I sometimes hate myself for being like this..
I really over think too much.. Can't help it..

Sorry for the ramblings..
I will try to post more interesting things in my next post..

Will try to update as much as I could..

GANBARIMASU!!

P/S: The previous two posts were just music videos + lyrics.. Not trying to plagiarized but that's the best way to convey a feeling when you are out of words.. When you listen to that song, you'll be like, "Uh huh! This is what exactly I am feeling!" BUT, you might even misunderstand me if you don't really see what the lyrics mean.. ;)

No More Being TOO Nice

If I don't blog about this, I am not Dora Yeow.
So, when David Archuleta's The Other Side of Down album was out, AAM organized the album pre-order.
Knowing that I am a huge fan of David, I updated my status on Facebook stating that I pre-ordered the album from AAM.
That status sparked an interest from this boy that I met before during DA's showcase last 2 years, M.
M stayed in KL but he was working part time at Penang.
He is also a huge fan of DA and wanted to pre-order the album too.

Since he was busy working and do not have time to pre-order the album, he text and asked me to help him out.

Okay. I was being too naive and nice and decided to help him out.
I ordered one more album for him and even paid for it first.

When I got the album,I contacted him, asking when I can pass the album to him.
And he said he is still in Penang and when he come back to KL, he will let me know.

Days passed and he never did let me know when he is free.
After two weeks, I contacted him again.
He then told me that he was busy enrolling for college and will plan a meet up with me soon to get the album.

And so I waited. He never contacted me again.
So, I left a message on his Facebook wall.

Another excuse..
He seems to be busy, but whenever I am on Facebook, his status will be on my newsfeed stating that he will go here & there.
But I was patient enough to just wait.

Until I saw his status stating that he'll be working at KLCC posted last night.

Forgot? You were desperate to pre-order the album and you forgot??
After my last comment, he wrote on my wall asking who I am going to find him with.
Then I told him I will drop by and pass the album before my Japanese class in the morning.
Guess what?
He said he might not have to time to come out look for me cuz he is working.. :S

Seeing that post, I was furious and deleted it before I could think of print screen it.
He was still online, I buzzed him on Facebook.
I asked him if he still wants the album so that I can know what to do with it.
And he just went offline without replying!!
I had enough of his shits and I replied as below:-

Now he said he "really" want the album and wanted to meet up to get it.
I was lazy to hear his shits again and said I have given it away!

And he told his mum about this incident?
Well, he deleted what I replied after this comment.
But I said this to him..

"You are most welcome"..You mummy boy just go tell your mum.Blame yourself for your ignorance.I did my best to help you ok.I even paid for you first.But each time you are giving excuses to meet up to get the cd.I didn't do anything wrong.Besides, I own that cd anyways cuz I paid for it..So,go and whine about it..

He still thinks that he is right??
I replied as below to him (Oh yes, he deleted the comment again before I can print screen).

Look.If someone did what you did,I think you will be angry too.I did all I can to help.If you really want the cd,you won't "forget" about it..You NEVER make any effort..If I didn't ask you to meet up to get the cd you will just act like nothing had happened.Ask yourself,how many times have I reminded you about the cd?And how many times you say you can't meet up?If I don't ask, you WON'T ask..Think about it..Who's fault is this..And yes I AM blaming you,openly..

He then insincerely apologized!

I had enough.
I unfriend him on Facebook!
It's really a shame that David has this kinda fan.

What happened to the album you asked?
I donated it for AAM TOSOD Gifting.
And I feel more satisfied and happy.

I rather lose RM 50.00 so that the album can land onto some better hands than M!
Just take it as I used this money to buy a lesson, a lesson of never be too nice to help out people you are not close with, especially when the help involves with money!